So last week I had a date with this gorgeous girl I had a lot in common with that I met off a dating site. We talked and texted for a little over a week until our date and our conversations would go on for awhile. I felt that we really hit it off on our date, she asked about seeing each other again later on. Then I texted her about a band I was seeing that she liked the next day after. Then today I sent her a text saying what's up then a few hours she says I'm the nicest guy, have a lot of great things going for me, how i'm a gentleman but she felt no chemistry or spark that she hoped for.
This isn't the first time I've been told I'm nice or a gentleman but honestly I feel that when I hear that it implies I'm a doormat or a pushover. Honestly I don't be nice in order to expect stuff in return. Nor do I go around telling people I'm nice but I feel like it's hurt my chances with women in getting a relationship. Should I change how I go about things? I don't mean pretend to be something I'm not but whatever I'm doing isn't working as it gets the same results.
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She still in the little girl stage. Your in the man stage. When that happens it's usually because the woman is afraid she will hurt you based on her own past experience. Sometimes people get exactly what they want and then when they get it realize they don't want what they thought they did and really have no clue what they want. Don't worry, the next time some guy calls her a beech, cheats on her or disrespects her I guarantee she will think of you and yap to her girls about not being able to find a good guy.2