With a push from somebody on this site, I uploaded some pics of myself for objective scrutiny so I know if I am at least ok. I don't want to put it on this main thread so please message me if you are a great person who wants to help a dude on his knees. I will respond with the links to my pics.
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There really is someone for everyone - you just have to believe it to the depths of your soul. Maybe you are focusing too much on the negative aspects of your personality, or physical appearance. When we focus on our own negative qualities, these are highlighted to those around us. You need to start looking at yourself in a more positive way. Write down 5+ positives qualities that you like about yourself! and how you can display theses more. E. g. Your smile- than smile more- nothing is more attractive than a smile. Your eyes- than make an effect to exchange more eye contact with people. Etc. With the men that I have dated attractiveness, is far down on their list of top qualities. As confidence, humour, ability to laugh at oneself, kindness, integrity, honesty are far more important.0