If a girl always waits for her boyfriend to say i love you first (not the first time ever, but always even after the first i love you) because she wants to hear him say it, does it make her selfish?
Doesn't it make her selfish because it means she doesn't care about making him feel wanted by telling him she loves him first?
- Yes she is selfishVote A
- No she isn'tVote B
Most Helpful Girl
I think that being willing to say you love someone and how selfless you are may be relative.
I rarely say I love you first. I'm admittedly selfish (work in progress).
The people I know who are selfless also happen to be quick to say I love you.
That's intriguing because I never thought about that before.0