I find the whole "guys pay for girls" thing a bit sexist and I've always paid for my own meals as I'm a working girl capable of going dutch. When in a relationship, I understand taking turns getting the bill as I would do that all the time but I'm curious, do you like paying for a girl all the time or would you prefer splitting it? Or taking turns who pays for which date? Thoughts? I know some girls say they NEVER pay for a date but I think this is a bit unfair for men.
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I wouldn't be offended, but I would wonder if it was because she didn't like me. A lot of women are more likely to pick up her end of the bill if she doesn't like the guy, so that she doesn't feel like she owed him anything. If it wasn't for that it wouldn't bother me. Ideally I would like to be able to treat her some of the time, and have her treat me other times, without either of us keeping score of how much either of us is paying.0