We had coffee for the first date and talked for 3 hours. We clicked. The next weekend, we had a second date. We got takeout and ate it at a park. Then we had two drinks at a bar. This date lasted 3 hours as well. We definitely clicked again. Both times, I made her laugh and smile a lot. I indicated that I liked her a few times on the second date (but nothing too intense), and I said that I wanted to keep hanging out. She said that she definitely wants to hang out again. We had a good hug, and then I gently rubbed her shoulder before we parted, and she said she would text me. I REALLY like her so far!! She has a lot of the qualities that I am looking for. I see potential, but it is early.
The next morning I sent these texts. "I had fun last night!! I hope you had fun too, because I want to keep spending time with you." Next, "I really like you from what I know of you so far. I felt good when I was with you last night. Hopefully we can get to know each other better and have even more fun together." I feel like I made these feelings obvious on our second date, and she would smile. But did I come on too strong? This is how I truly feel, but I am well aware that it is early on.
Also, I know that it doesn't ask for a response, but I sent that message at 9:00am, and it is 3:00pm and I haven't heard back. But I know she is apple picking with friends today starting early. She usually takes a while to get back to me too.
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I agree with Anon, next time just send one message instead of two especially if you believe that it was sort of implied on the second date how much you like her. I'm sure she will text back from what you have said so far she likes you too a lot. Don't overreact or anything just wait it out for the rest of today and see how she responds to your texts and if she doesn't respond, don't jump to conclusions just yet make sure she knows you're not trying to move things too fast I hope this helps a bit :)0