So I started my first year of university met this guy and fell in love and it ended badly due to something I DID.
I pushed him away and haven't found someone sense... I try so hard to move on but I have nothing to move on to. All the boys I meet now just want to sleep with me no guy ever bothers to get to try to get to know me. I am just a booty call to them or a hot girl and it makes me so depressed. ( I never sleep with them but that's how they treat me).
I can't get over this guy and it's been 3 years and I just feel like I never will.
I am 21 and really need some help.
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You have soul ties with your ex. There are desires and fantasies, imaginations that are still in your mind, causing you to long for him.
How much of those things are you sure are real? Our hearts so often deceive us.
Are you in touch with your gut feeling? What is it saying about your ex?
You have two options, nay, three. One, you can go back to him. You may realize that those longings you have will be partially, or totally unfulfilled.
Two, you can exist as you have been, and let time erase that connection. You may have to help.
Or, three, you can take a total mental inventory of yourself, (I recommend praying and asking God) get in touch with your instincts, learn to ignore your heart, and find out the truth about the way you feel. It may benefit you to give your undying love to someone possibly more worthy. I highly recommend you seek God on this one.0