I am 29 and I am still timid and introverted. I am insecure. I don't think I am that attractive even though people say I am. I am not crazy insecure like check your phone or read your emails or fight other women type of insecure. I avoid fights and arguements. Is there guys that find this attractive? I been like this all my life... I can change so wondering if there are men who accept this.
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You are one kind of species and there are a lot of people like you. There are many kinds of people in the world and they have there own characteristics and similar kind. The world wants different kind of people so it will make it very hard for you to change the way you are.
When you said "I can change so wondering if there are men who accept this." I think you would have already tried it sometimes without much success.
I think you are more of a innocent and peace loving girl. You can push yourself to the brink when you get a challenge which is worth and something you like but you don't like speaking with someone for hours over useless things. Generally people like this think that they have a mission in life.
If you are the person I mentioned above and you want to be a more open, then my advice is try to understand what is so good in relationship and why just talking with someone helps you and makes your day. Believe in people and when you see somebody you can talk with take a common topic and talk with them. You will feel encouraged and the other person will also like it.0