There are also others who can do both and others who can't do either. Why?
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I think it's because some guys only want to take girls home generally and when they try and actually secure something serious, they're unable to figure it out. And likewise, maybe a guy knows how to secure a girl but not a one night stand - perhaps he is too nice or too much of a relationship person, I don't know. For the guys who can't do either, I'm not sure. I have a friend who has a problem like that and for him it's based in his low self-esteem and confidence. He doesn't see why anyone would want to date him/sleep with him, so he doesn't try for fear of rejection. It mostly all depends on the guy and the girls he is trying to get in the end.0