I don't know why but it's rare if a guy approaches me or asks me out. I don't know why... I mean I do take care of myself and my personality is alright I guess. Any suggestions? If you want to know how I look, you can look at my avatar.
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Yes it's true that beautiful women often intimidate guys. If you don't know the importance of smiles, eye contact, body language, and making small talk, please read my previous post on that subject or read about body language on the web. First of all, you have to go where the guys can find you. There may not be enough or the right type of guys in your orbit. If that is true, you must consider what changes you can make.
You look great, you smell good, you smile, you can make small talk. Who can resist that? Now you've got to go where you'll find the type of guy you want to meet. If you may, go to a nice club with one friend, order a wine, and wait for someone to introduce himself. I know little about Tinder or Match et cetera and cannot comment on that, but I understand the women on those sites far outnumber the men.
If you feel you are an extrovert, though, you might begin conversation with guys you often see in your daily routine, but whom you haven't met. These guys will be "safe" because you see them at work or school and know a bit about them already. But use good judgment. Practice and learn the art of light conversation with friends. Keep it light, not too intellectual and not overly funny.
Finally, watch your body language and make sure you don't shield yourself from others by a crouching posture and avoiding eye contact. You want to radiate friendliness. If you persist, though, Nature will do its work. You have to put yourself in the public eye.0