So I really like this guy. he is 29 and I am 23. I am still a virgin and I don't really don't want to tell him that yet. What is normal to how many dates you go on before having sex? We have only been on two dates so far and I have known him for two in a half weeks.
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I know I'm a guy, but I don't think the issue should be how many dates is normal as it should be how many dates until you feel comfortable. Don't worry about having to meet a deadline. Having sex, especially for the first time, is not something you should do because you're being told to at a certain time or because society tells you you have to. You should have sex only when you're sure you're ready and want to. Also virginity is a fairly emotional thing for most people, so you should definitely take some time to make sure he's the right guy to share that sort of thing with. You don't HAVE to have sex with anyone, EVER, if you don't want to.3