I've been feeling a bit depressed l8ly. im 27 and i have been in 3 relationships with 2 different women... the first lasted a year and was in high school the 2nd was with the same girl and we started talking again online about 5 years l8er and lasted 3 years and my last was 8 months about 3 months ago we met because of my ex setting my up with her... i enjoy having a woman in my life but its more because i dont like being alone and going out in public isn't much my thing... i want to have kids and im about to approach the point where kids isn't viable anymore... i dont have friends my age or know peopel with similar interests... i have profiles on 3 different dating sites and chat activly in 2 other chat rooms... people have told me bars/librarys/parks are good places to meet people but as i said im not really social enough to go out and just talk to strangers... and i dont drink nor do i wanna pick up a woman at a bar -.-... I know what I want in a relationship. I want a strong willed woman not afraid to tell me what she likes and wants, who's a hard worker, faithful, and devoted. A woman who loves to receive and return affection.
so i know what i want and im ready to work for it and give 100% to my SO... my questions are am i ready for being with someone... considering my history would friends with benefits be a better approach than a relationship for me... and how would i go about finding the right woman or even start looking...
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A strong willed woman who is a hard worker, faithful, and devoted is an independent woman who may not be so good at receiving or expressing love - which doesn't mean she can't, but it will maybe take some time to come up naturally. Just saying it may be hard to recognize this woman sometimes.
Anyway, you sound more like the relationship type of guy. You said it yourself, you're ready for it 100%. Don't waste your time and effort with things you don't really want.0
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