Been hooking up with this guy for a while now, just a friends. A few nights back I was over at his place and we were in the middle of it when he asked if he could put it in my ass, he knows I'm not a fan of that but I said I'd try, he does and it hurt so bad I asked him to stop. He called me a liar. I got mad and got my stuff and left. I got home and he messaged me apologizing and what not, he said that if he lost me it would make his weekend that much worse then it already was. Blah blah blah. I ignored it and went to bed. The next morning I felt bad, thought maybe I exaggerated a bit idk. So I messaged him back saying I was sorry, I might have overreacted idk. He never messaged me back. It's been about three days since it happened. I don't know if I should message him again or go over and talk about it. Again, we're just good friends. We're not together whatsoever. I do care about him.
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It sounds as though this Friends with benefits factor I call it, gave you the old song and dance on One end of 'Apologizing,' but the Next Minute he is Putting you on his Pay no mind list and Ends up in the long Run-----Giving it to you right up the butt----Again, sweetie.
I find this disrespectful, and guess what? He is the Big 'Liar,' not you, so relax.
No, do Not contact him in any way, shape or Form until he pushes a button on his End. He owes you a Reply, this sly guy, and if he decides to stay Stay out of touch with you, then he is not what I call a 'Friend,' but A----Fair weather wet one with a bag of wind and Butt crazy to boot.
You deserve better. Just sit tight, don't bother with this Butt head. He sounds immature and even with the 'Butt' Notion to give it to you 'In this way' in the bed even, is showing me if he can't have things His way, it's The----Highway.
Good luck. xx1