I am shy about asking girls out especially on a real date. Do you think coffee counts?
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The first time my crush and I ever hung out alone without other friends, we went for a walk and chilled at Tim Hortons (being the typical Canadian I am) for about an hour and half haha. I basically said "Wanna join me for a walk?" And because he knew I walk a long way to Tim Hortons, he said "sure and we can grab a drink at Timmies on the way". It's as simple as that. It wasn't a date but we certainly enjoyed each others company and getting to know each other without thinking too much into it or putting any pressure of it being a date. It's the start. Going for coffee is a simple and easy way to spend time with her and besides, the import thing is that you two are enjoying each others company and getting to know one another better. If she goes for a kiss or hints for a kiss at the end of the night, you'll know it's a date. But don't force it or make her nervous. Take it slow and see where it goes from there. Be sure to ask her questions and let her know you are interested in what she has to say and that you listen - girls love that.0