Warning: Incredibly long, and most likely confusing question. So. I met a guy online, we live about four hours away from each other, and we've been texting for over a month. We might or might be in a relationship, all I know is that it was established that we were both willing to try a long-distance relationship. BUT, it was never established if that's what we were doing. I asked him if he wanted to Skype sometime, and he said possibly, so I told him that if he ever wanted to, to just let me know. He said okay :). We haven't talked for about a day since that happened, but I was hanging out with a friend today, and we met some guys and I walked around with one of them with our arms around each other's waists. He asked for my number, I gave it to him. We've been texting for a while, and it seems very flirty. I don't know if I'm even in a relationship with the guy four hours away, but I feel really bad about what I'm doing. Am I cheating on him? What should I do?
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If you don't know if you're in a relationship, you're not a relationship. You've made several mistakes here:
#1: Met a guy online, never met him in person
#2: Four hours away - Long distance relationships don't work
#3: Texting! It's further dehumanizes him and yourself to him.
#4. Nothing was ever discussed.
The online world is a fake world. Move on from him and talk to the guy in the REAL world.2
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