We dated while we where in highschool and his grandmother found out and said he isn't allowed to date out of his race. So we broke up his mom was the one to break the news to me cause he didn't have the heart to do it. We remained friends all during the last 2 years of school. When we graduated he move to Arkansas this year he came home on vacation and saw me and decided he can make his own decisions now so we are dating. Now that we are back together his mom , dad sisters , and brothers, aunts, uncles are happy for us. But we have one big problem. HIS grandperents don't know yet!!! I think he's afraid of being disowned. He wants me to meet his family face to face but i am scared to do that because im afraid of being mistreated. Just because im African American. Im afraid to lose him again because of the same reason even though he tells me there is nothing that can break us apart unless i can't take it.
Even though i like his mom and i love that he supports us 100% but she's so nosey. She reads his Facebook messages and listens to his voice-mail and calls him her baby every time i talked to her its so annoying i need help !!!
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well it is his mother, if i was you i wouldn't even try to get in between that. If he complains about it tell him to confront her, but u shouldn't do it yourself, because no matter how much she likes you, she might not take it the right way. Discuss it with him and let him speak up for himself. About grandparents i dont really know.. sorry, but whatever you do don't make problems with the parents, by maybe by accident insulting their parents. Really push him to defend u and him and if both of are serious let him know how important this is to u.1