I was bored and went onto the chat forum where i was leading what i call a 'charm competition': where each guy needs to tell one thing about themselves to persuade me to choose them. And it carries for 6 rounds.
It was so much fun. The King of the competition and I chatted further on skype. We really hit it off well. We have been talking day and night for 20 days. We are constantly texting and phoning 2 to 3 hrs at a time, sometimes 2, 3 times a day. He really loves me and I love him too.
The problem is that he lives 12500km away and he is planning to come and visit me in 2 months time when i finish the exams. We really wanna get to know each other well and be together as soon as we can, if things go well, either he or I will move and get married and all.
My mom being very conservative, she's not very happy about me having a boyfriend. She obviously doesn't know i haven't met him yet. I visited where he currently lives, about 2 months ago. So my mom thinks that i met him while i was there.
Even though he says he loves me for who I am and not for my looks, I am a little concerned about my looks and also that I can't ignore the possibility of him being disappointed when he finally sees me...
Do you think it's possible to fall in love like this?
Does anyone have experience with meeting people online?
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I totally think it's possible to fall in love like this, In fact I think meeting someone online gives you an even higher chance of emotional compatibility, while sacrificing some physical compatibility sometimes.
The fact that you have a chance of "talking to anyone" on the internet gives you the chance of meeting people you wouldn't ordinarily meet, the internet gives you connection to millions of people while in your daily life you may walk by several hundred, but how many of them will you really have the time or motivation to talk to? And even if you do talk to some person you meet in person it is probably because of their physical appearance.
As for personal experience, I met one of my ex girlfriends on a video game, so if you think how you met your guy is weird, it's not even close :P We were incredibly compatible emotionally, it was a great relationship eventually I went to go meet her and we had a very good time together, she wasn't the most beautiful girl and honestly if I saw her walking down the street I probably wouldn't have talked to her, and never got to know such a wonderful person. So for that I thank the internet.
Go for it girl! :)1