I am a 25 year old who is a virgin, never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Am I a loser? (Page 2)
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I think its great! That means you are willing to wait for the right girl or thats what it sounds like in my opinion. Personally I dont care about all of that if im attracted to you then im attracted to you
It's really not a big deal, you have somuch accomplishment are waiting in the rest of your life, No need to sit on a path drawn by others, there is an animaed short call 《One Minute Fly 》, i hope the film enlightens you as the way it enlightened me.
Did you not go to college or univeristy most people like "you" lose it then. But its pretty sad, and its very easy to not be popular but at the same time its not hard. Try using Tinder if you're that desperate. And hey there's always fat chicks.
You're not a loser. You're just inexperienced.
There are way too many lovers' guides out there for you to use virginity as an excuse to suck in bed. It's unfortunate that all these women rejected you, where they generally in your league or not?
show me a photo. cute, good job and good manners count for a lot. in the end girls are attracted to confidence. what are you best at doing? meet girls while you are doing that.
A loser in my opinion is someone that was a total show off in high school, dropped out, now has to work a shitty job for a minimum wage.. that is a loser
Girlfriend's are overrated man.
Just invest in an Xbox One, buy Sunset Overdrive and that will give you more fun than any woman can with their insecurity issues, their nagging, their domineering and controlling ways, not to mention their manipulation and deceptive tactics in order to get to conform to their ways.
I haven't got started on social media yet...
Whatever you do, do not get obsessed with this and never ever get depressed because if you do you will be a 40 year old virgin before you know. Be patient and keep on trying. About being inexperienced; don't worry about it, do not let it hold you back. If your partner is not a slut, she will not judge you and things are gonna get a lot better really quick.
dont ever give up take it as a blessing and look at it as you are saving yourself for someone special. i recommend dating on a dating site see how things go.. goodluck :)
i do not think you are a loser... :) you just haven't meet someone who will take time to know you and what you are about... and who would appreciate you for You... i feel getting into a relationship takes time and finding the right person is all that matters.. so just keep up with the Positive attitude.. and continue with life.. do not let what you are going through hold you back in life.. :)
You definetly need to work on your confidence, because it's holding you back. Also figure out what you can bring to the table to impress a girl. Like, get in shape, save up for a nice car. Those are big things, but little things, like a nice hair cut or always smelling good. Focus on being fun. There is a study that the funnier you are the more attracted people are to you.
You're not pathetic. Don't beat your self up like that! You have the rest of your life to do all of that stuff. Loosing your virginity shouldn't be your top priority, getting your life together and getting your education is. There is someone out there for everyone and you will find your solumate.
people argue and say that our past does not dictate our future but i often wonder where guys like you and me (since i can relate to your situation) went wrong in the past with women that made us lack the ability to approach and talk to women, flirt with them, initiate/escalate with them the right way in order to naturally know how to get a girlfriend
No don't give up. I'm sure the right girl is just around the corner. Yes I just used a cheesy, classic line but whatever. You're still very much young so it's not over
Relationships can be complicated. Sex can be too but also fantastic! This isn't on 25 and a Virgin. Fancy a date? ;)
I am also a super virgin but 20. I have been on dates but never had an actual gf. I sort of kissed a girl but not really because I missed her lips. But i guess i can count it because the intent was there.
You have to evaluate that, not me. If you're happy and content with your life choices then you're not a loser by default.
You are not. I didn't have a boyfriend until 23. I felt very depressed before I met him, but now I'm sure that there is someone for everyone
Quit lying. Move if you have to in order to get around women, work on your confidence and approach. You have to stop being so passive with women.
I don't think your a loser im 19 and haven't had a boyfriend or had sex, or even kiss anyone either im very similar to you and I don't consider myself a loser I just think of it as im saving myself for the right person?