So i have been talking to this person who is and out of my life. distance makes it difficult. though i promised to see her and i would however it is incredibly difficult when she is acting hot and cold. sometimes she calls me up and is warm hearted, flirty and claims to miss me. other times she dissapears into nothingness, giving the silent treatment. we are both promiscious people when not dating, which is cool by me. she should just say if she is seeing someone. it makes it easier too cool it down. she always tells me to escape somewhere together and we are very much alike in our interests, lifestyle choices etc. i just don't know why she can't be honest. she should say listen, stay out of my way. instead she is being vague and sometimes very desinterested and other times all over me. its annoying and she knows i like her very much. its not like she is the center of my whole universe (though she is most amazing person) but i want to be with her, even when i am with someone else. how crazy is that? should i just avoid her altogether, let her come to me again. i don't know what to do. i don't want to hear anything about being alpha or beta or all this other bull. i can get into dates easily and i am not one who judges. i don't. i am just clueless on how to deal with a person like that.
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Its our dumb butt way of getting you guys to actually think about us. We want you guys to know you need to look out for us, help us and give us space in your heart mind soul and grave... maybe she got hurt before? When people get hurt, they most likely will not try to fall into the same crap again and maybe she realizes she's falling and then tries to pick her self up every now and then. I know im like that. Ill be close with a guy and we both enjoy it but when i feel like somethings up or i remembered how i got hurt before i might go missing some days.. You'll find me on the back of every milk carton or wanted dead or alive because i know he hated that. Be the man and set her straight. Get her to talk! I hated how some guy would never take charge or act like they dont realize i went missing. If she won't give you the time of day then dont ask for it. But let your instinct take over... and your with someone? Lol dude back up then because thats going to bite you later... Be careful and be the guy like get things straight. Dont play her game or give into it because its easier to find out the cheat codes in this girls game than it is to cheat on a diet.0