We were dating for a month and everything went great, and there were no tell signs for her leaving me, to make it even more unaccaptable, she texted me, that we aren't allowed to be together, yes she is a 24 yo single mom. She really completely ignored me when i tried to talk to her again, invane, she doesn't talk about her emotions or anything at all, she is a closed book, then later i posted on my fb wall that i didn't deserve the way she treated me, and that i think its time to move on. i deleted that post rather quickly , within 30 minutes or so, next day, late in the evening , she sends me a message letting me know that she did read that message. someone who couldnt care less, wouldn't even take that step. i didn't respond, next day i receive an angry message, no idea what it was about. i decided not to respond, because she clearly was in an emotional state. few days later i texted her, Hi, how are you doing, she replied, im ok, then next day, i wanted to read our conversation, and this stupid fb messenger, i touched a button and it sended this thumbs up, symbol, so i wrote sorry, wrong button, and then wrote, about my post well uhmm... then she blocked me from FB, Whatsapp. i dont know why, i wasn't rude to her or anything, she wants it this way, im sincere about my feelings, and not about to give up, but it does tire me a lot, i feel emotinally drained. she is a damaged girl, to make things worse, she shows certain traits of borderline. so why did she block me, what can i do, to establish an open and nice contact with her again. all the time she is acting hot and cold to me, now today, when she left work she turned around, while holding her phone in her hand, and threw a small glance at me. just for a brief moment, she was about first to leave, but left last. how to aproach someone like this, im thinking about staying friendly, glancing back now and then, or start the glancing, and later, ask her in her language ( polish ) for a casual meet up:)
Could it be she blocked me on Facebook and whats app, after posting on fb , that it was time to move on... read details, your respectfull view?
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from the details I can see that she isn't ready emotionally for a relationship. she wanted to get herself on the horse again but she couldn't. it was too much for her to handle. I can see she has issues. she must of had a bad experience or some kind of trauma...
the best thing to do is to stay friendly , not too close , not too far : greetings and casual short conversation, not all the time. keeping distance is crucial. If you're interested she will eventually approach you !
stay strong :D0
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