I went through her phone the other day (i know im a terrible person) and i saw she got a text message from her ex max that said let's meat up tomorrow at the mall. she didn't mention anything about it and we just went to sleep the next day when i wake up she is getting ready like she is going to a club and tells me she has to run some errands ccccombo breaker so do girls like to talk about philosophy in a relationship?
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She definitely went to see her ex, explains the wardrobe as well as possible errand running. Some people do this so they personally won't feel like they are lying. I wouldn't say she is cheating just yet but the fact that she won't tell you about meeting him and that she remains in contact with him needs to be addressed. If that's something you don't agree with but she feels is ok, it is and will always be a reason you both will have to argue. Arguments based on dishonesty no matter how minor I s the absolute downfall of any relationship. especially when it becomes constant. After all that... Quick question did you check her phone again to see if she responded or did he call, did you ask her where her errands were (not in an interrogating fashion). He could just be the lonely ex that text no matter what. Get all the facts. You need to now because you already establish your distrust in her and not knowing will hurt you guys. You might start acting differently if you just let this pass. Try to monitor her phone activity inconspicuously. Talk it out definitely!!0