I went on a "date" this past weekend, it was my first time meeting him.
My girlfriend is talking to one of his friends and thats how we met. So me n this guy started talking and he finally wanted to meet me face to face i agreed. well he told his buddy he was going out with me (the guy my girlfriend is talking to) my date NEVER told his buddy to come out with us... however my girlfriend told me that her guy said that he was coming to n that its going to b us four... well my date didn't know that so he was suprised to see his friend n also my friend... rather than myself. :/
well the night continued and we ened up hitting it off! i mean not an awkward moment for us we just kept on talking and i was noticing an attraction towards him.. however he had mentioned that he want to take it slow... which is fine with me... until the end of the night he did NOT pick up my tab n did not pay for my drinks.
i know this is 2014 but if a man is intrested he would pick up that tab, its not about the money really cause i can take care of my tab. i guess its just a matter of respect.
he still contacts me n still wants to go on a 2nd date just us two... should i give him another chance even though he didn't pick up my tab? do you think he is intrested?
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It should always be split. I think you are expecting to be treated better than you want to treat him. I hope he moves on to someone who wants somebody to put the same amount of effort. How would you feel if he expected you to pay for his meal and drinks? I bet you wouldn't like it and think he's selfish2