What do guys think of 'sweet' girls?

How would you define a sweet girl?

Do you guys want to be friends with sweet girls, date them, or just think they're boring?

In general, what do you think of them?


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  • Well, it depends on what you mean by sweet. To me sweet means they are shy and reserved in sharing their opinions. They avoid conflict and rather keep the peace by saying something nice, as opposed to stating their view. So for the most part they aren't outspoken, even though they may think differently. This may sound mean, but honestly that bugs me. It feels fake; I can't trust that. I sometimes feel that 'sweet girls' are the cause of their own demise in that they are too scared to be themselves; and as a result live at the opinions of others. They are too sweet to stand up and just be themselves. One of the commentators also said it well by calling them 'sugar coated'. It all feels to me like a fa├žade sometimes.
    I like the idea of a girl being independent but still kind. She needs to be firm in who she is and not roll over just to avoid causing an offence. I often think guys go for the sweet girl because they are easy targets. But after all that jazz, why do you think the guy leaves in the end? I love it when a girl can be herself and not take shit from people. Obviously she should not be rude and abrasive. She just needs to know how to stand her ground and be comfortable with who she is. 'Sweet girls' don't represent this to me. I think I would get bored after a while. I'm not saying bored because it's a sexual issue (I don't even plan on having pre-marital sex). I say bored because 'sweet girls' are just to simplistic and shy for me. I do though believe that every 'sweet girl' has the potential to be strong and interesting.
    But yea, this is of course my personal association with the word 'sweet'. To me, sweet does not necessarily mean kind and loving. Even girls who aren't 'sweet' can be kind and loving. Sweet girls are easy to control and manipulate. I hate that. I want a women who can think for herself. I'm sorry if this comes across as offensive. I actually feel sorry for girls who get lied to and manipulated by men. Ugh... yea. Semi-sweet is better.

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What Guys Said 8

  • A sweet girl according to me is, who knows how to talk to a male, and is usually quiet, smart and doesn't talk too much, but is ignored by them because she is not as attractive as the smug bitches wearing thongs. Like nice guys, but female.

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  • I love sweet girls. I am actually trying to find a sweet girl to date.

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  • no way, they're boring and their "sweetness" makes me wanna throw up

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  • Sweet girls are the best!

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  • I prefer sweet girls they are kind loving honest caring and non judge mental I wish I could find one

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  • i like them. would date

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  • Women come in three categories:
    A.) Bitch
    B.) Bitch to people she doesn't care about one way or the other
    C.) Not a Bitch

    Does that somewhat vulgar statement answer your question about what a "sweet" girl is?

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  • 'Sweet girls' don't exist to me. Even if they seem sweet, I have realized that they're just sugar coated spicy chilies.

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    • i've been called that too but all i have done is to be nice to people who i dun really know which most people do too. only people who know me well will know that i am not how i look like. so what i mean is it's not our fault to look sweet, just that people kinda judged us by our looks

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