My boyfriend didn't log out of his Facebook on my laptop last night. When I got on, it was still pulled up on his messages. I was about to click off of it when I saw he had messaged his ex, along with several other girls. The conversation that caught my eye was one where the girl had said 'text me bae.' I opened the conversation, only to see that he had been calling her babe and baby, the whole emoji kiss face and everything. The only message I actually read was her saying she wished she could be in bed with him, to which he had replied, 'I know, me too'
The only thing is, he lives with me and she is in a different town hours away. This is really stressing me out and I don't know what to do
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He is looking for some type of affection else where from you - yes, that is considered cheating or at least "on the verge of cheating"... I would cut the relationship right there.
How long has this been going on for?
If he had any problems in your relationship with him he should have talked to you in order to work on them...
Everyone has their own love language and it seems like he is not getting something in your relationship, other wise he wouldn't be talking to other females. He may think it is harmless in his mind because she is not local but at the end of the day - the heart grows fond with distance or not.2
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