I ask because, I used to date any girl I found attractive, regardless of other features. (Definitely a douche move, but hear me out.) Since about 3 or 4 months ago, I have stepped up my standards by a lot. I have turned down 4 girls in the past few months, each of which was very attractive, but the personality just didn't match what I need. What about you?
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That is tough. I can't really think of anything that is absolutely required. It is more just like if he seems nice then I'll go with it. Then if he continues to seem nice, I'll continue to go with it to see if anything happens further. I mostly go by intuition however, I have noticed patterns... a lot of guys that I like tend to have four lettered names for example, like me. They also frequently have blonde hair and sport a pair of shades. They often have that sense of humor that I particularly like and never have I really fell for a guy who didn't care about his hair. Oh yeah, and they are usually just about my size except a few inches taller, but I seem to be attracted to people that have about the same width.
It is not like these things are required though. I don't filter guys out based upon this criteria. It is just patterns that I have noticed xD
Oh well actually I guess there is one thing that is kind of important to me: caring about other people. I didn't used to do this, but now I tend to scan a guy's body language closely when he is flirting with me. I check to see how he treats other people, how he talks to children, older people, his parents. I don't mind nervousness, but I check for tense spots due to hostility or anger or any other negative thing that I don't really want too much of in my life.0