My boyfriend's birthday is next month and he's always saying how he would like to go to the casino or take a road trip or go out of town. Well, I asked if he wanted to go to New Orleans because he has never been. I also asked if he wanted to go to Biloxi to go gambling. He won't give me a definite answer. Then, he'll say I want to hang out with my buddies and drink. But, the next day he'll tell me they're too broke or busy or some other excuse. What's so wrong about going on vacation or spending time with me?
My birthday is in December, and even though I asked him 4 months in advance, he probably still won't go with me. He's had plenty of time to request off work, save up and go. But, I can't even plan anything with him because he won't give me an answer and I'm scared if he says yes he'll back out at the last minute. I don't want to book a hotel this early because I'd lose my deposit or something. Any thoughts?
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There are some people who want to sit back and relax and don't want to trouble themselves with new things. They will generally like to do what they like. Only when they get too much interested then only they will go for it otherwise they will just like to delay things and then see how it goes.
They will have superb energy in what they do and they maybe good in it but will try new things only when they are comfortable.
Don't book tickets now. Plan to go somewhere for a day out, see how much comfortable he is and what are his reaction. based upon that you can decide1