I was taken aback, I'm usually the pursuer and this chick takes charge like that, it kind of turned me off.
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I don't approach men , I let them do the approaching. But I really feel like you're insecure , You seem like the type that always want to be the dominant one. I bet when having sex you want to be the one always in control making the moves , My uncle is a good example of your question. He's very good looking like a Shemar Moore type but everybody says my uncle looks better , He's taller and fit and very well fit. Women loves him , His ex wife was a very close friend of minds. She was cute and liked him a lot , I never had the guts to tell him. But she had to do the approaching , She had a male friend of ours to tell him that she liked him. They dated for years and got married. If he can accept a woman doing the approaching , I'm pretty sure you can.1