Okay, so I just transferred to UCIrvine a couple of months ago and I met this guy on campus. He is great. He is super funny, very sweet, and he is gorgeous. We officially started dating two months ago. He introduced me to his mom as his girlfriend. His mom was in shock when she saw me because apparently my picture is in my dad's house. My dad is her fiance' of 6 months.. I don't really talk to my dad because of family issues, so I had no idea about his love life. She asked me what my name was and she started telling me all that she knows about me, and how my dad loves and misses me, and blah, blah.
Then she said "wow, we all need to have a big talk.", and she giggled. She showed me her engagement ring and their pictures they took on vacation. Just flaunting everything. Me and my guy were put in a very awkward position.
We didn't say much after that, but now me and my guy are confused about a lot. We don't know what to do. I only thought this stuff happened in novels. But I'm really freaking out.
What can we do?
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im sorry but your life sounds like an episode of gossip girl haha :/
firstly I think the four of you should sit down and have a big long talk, like his mom suggested. discuss things like how this would effect the four of you if you and your guy stuck together, and they married. also, like other people have said, you two are not blood related, so it is not incest. however, its true that no matter what , people would still talk. and since it would be easy to find out the truth anyway if you lied, don't hide anything but no I'm not saying you should parade around telling everyone he's your stepbrother.
hope it works out.0