I´m a social girl, I love dinner parties and barbeques or any daytime social gatherings, but I hate clubbing, going to dance or bars. I hate night life, as I don´t feel good around people who are drunk and men that are hitting on me.
I´m dating a guy who loves this stuff and goes out every Friday until 5 a. m. I´m afraid that once I will tell him I don´t like to do this, he will loose an interest in me..
Btw, what is so good about going to clubs? Is it always about getting laid?
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I almost want to say don't become involved with someone that can't accept you for who you are, or that has completely different interests. Be yourself from the start. It's often tempting to pretend and force oneself, somehow hoping to later change the other person, but it doesn't work that way. Be the beautiful person you are, and if that's not compatible with him, move on. It's not really a case of there being something wrong with either of you; you're just different.
Embrace The Difference :)0