Okay, so basically the guy i've been seeing for almost three weeks said he'd text me to tell me if he had work that night. He usually starts work around 6pm and has to drive the hour home to go to work.
Well, he was supposed to tell me that day if he had work or not because I was going to set up a mini party where he could meet my friends. My friends ended up not being able to do anything, and it had turned into 5pm and he still hadn't texted me so I decided since it was Friday I was just going to relax with a drink. I've had a pretty bad day between screwing up my lab, having to redo a paper, and trying to deal with the one year anniversary of my uncle dieing in a car accident due to faulty tires on the work vehicle he was driving. So I was already trying to deal with a lot. It turned into 9 oclock with still no text from him. By this time I'm pretty drunk and ended up hanging out with my roommate Joe drunk and talking about hard core heavy things. I finally get a text from him at 9:30 telling me that he's at a friends house and it's boring.
So I get pissed. Some because my day was shitty, others because we haven't been able to go out on weekend and do things together since the first night we met, and he broke our tennis date the day before. I've been skipping class just to have more time with him, and now on Friday when I've finally got some free time he's nowhere to be seen. And then he expects me to be able to hang out on Saturday instead because he's got work on Sunday when I've got 3 exams next week and reviews to go to for most of the weekend, which he knows about. I'm also not going to be in town next weekend which he knows.
I also just really needed someone there for me because I still can't get over my uncle dieing. And maybe it's too soon to ask for the company of a guy you've been seeing for 3 weeks to help you with something like that.. but I felt like he didn't care, and I had told him about my uncle the day before. Did I over react?
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Well... it has only been 3 weeks. He just wants to take it slow. Guys hate drama especially only after 3 weeks. You're being too needy and already telling him he's not making am effort. When we get angry at our boyfriends, they tend to distance themselves and run the other way. They're big pussies, worse than women. Men are pretty insecure when it comes to relationships, because they don't understand women and have no idea how to talk to a woman who's angry. They take it a personal attack and think 'well I'm not good enough and I can't do anything right, stomp stomp stomp. Just do your own thing, live your life and don't hold off on plans because you're waiting on his response. Women are independant, don't be dependant on a guy. The less interested you are the more interested he will be0