I feel pressured to date and I really don't want to. I just want to like guys without dating them because I want to date for marriage. I don't see the point in dating because most break up and don't last til college. I don't want to go through heart break again, it's not necessary. Highschool is already stressful!. I also feel like guys are more mature in college and out of college. My friends pressure me because they belive that if I like a guy then I'm soposed to date them. And if I don't then im a whore or heartbreaker for liking multiple guys and not settling for one. I guess I can understand that but I shouldn't have to date a guy just because he has feelings for me.
Is anyone else going through this?
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Not personally, but had one in my sircle of friends. He ended up telling them straightforwardly to shut the F**K up because he did not intend to date, and hey should respect that.
IMAybe try the same? Don't wrap it in nicely. Tell it exactly as it is, that you're not intnding to date, and tha they can't make you change your mind, and that continuing to pressure you will just piss you off.1