I'm so sick of this behavior from every guy I encounter. I have literally told one guy in particular at least 10 times that to spend time with me, you have to plan something in advance. Instead, he continues to send me "I wanna see you tonight" messages and asks to hangout at 9pm or after. He considered asking at 5pm on the day of to be advance notice. The guy I'm currently dealing with now, asked when we could hang, I told him the nights I was available, he disregardingly asked to meet up that very second. When I told him I was at work and needed advance notice, he asked about later tonight. I said it would be 11pm before I got home and he said, "So? Lol." I asked what we would do on a Sunday this late. He said, "IDK." I replied that maybe we could another night when he figured it out, and that I had class in the morning. Of course, no reply. Why do these guys completely ignore the days I offer to see them (only time I'm free) and expect me to drop everything that very second to see them? Why do a lot of guys see this as acceptable? It's very rude and inconsiderate to not plan ahead. It makes me, the woman, feel like some second-rate, last-minute choice. It's like if I set standards, guys run.
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Well, hate to say it but... you're giving guys the vibe that you're easy. At your age guys are interested in hooking up (period). There's VERY few guys that want anything more. (I am expecting a guy your age to argue that). Fact is, all we think about from about the age 12 on is sex. Push the dating thing off a few years and guys will change after they've been turned down enough to realize they need to treat women with respect. The right guy for you will come along shortly, just wait. In the meantime, be happy they're calling you.0