I've been seeing this guy now for 1 1/2 years. We aren't official despite the fact that we see each other every week. We don't talk every day but have an amazing time together in person. I'm 2 years older than him (is that a problem?). He's in college and I just graduated. We have been rocky despite it being such a long time. He tells me loves me all the time, mostly when he is drunk which I understand isn't the best but whatever. When I asked him for a relationship after a year he said it was unrealistic so I tried to end it. After a few days he begged me to come back which I did. We continued to see each other. Recently he's been a little more distant but still tells me he loves. Or misses me. I don't understand why he's being distant. If he doesn't want to be with me than why doesn't he just end it? It's been a long time but if he doesn't want a relationship why won't he let me end it? Does he actually care or is he just using me?
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He might be too terrified to be single.0