Girls, is it hard for you to turn down a guy who asks you out?

Girls, is it hard for you to turn down a guy who asks you out? Do you feel bad for him?

  • Yes, its hard. I don't like to turn guys down.
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  • No, its no big deal.
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  • Yeah, it's hard for me, I feel bad, especially knowing they usually have to get up the courage to ask me. If he looks like a player though, I don't.

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What Girls Said 8

  • I find it very hard because I feel bad. I know I'm not entitled to say yes, which is why I say no, however I still feel bad because I wouldn't like being rejected. I just hope I didn't hurt them or lower their confidence.

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  • depends. If I don't like the guy and we're not close, it's easy (no offense).

    But if the guy is a really close friend... ouch

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  • Not hard.
    There is no emotion, there is peace.

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  • No turning down a guy is not hard.
    If the attraction isn't there I can't force it.
    What does terrifies me is there reaction.
    There were times when I would rejected a guy in a very kind and respectful manner.
    And he would ethier accepted it or attack me for not feeling the same way.
    I think both men and women have been through a similar experience.

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  • Yeah, it's hard for me. I don't like to hurt people.

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  • It sucks to be rejected, so I hate rejecting. I never know how to go about it. I ended up hurting a lot more guys' feelings by not doing it upfront though.

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  • No I dont find it hard at all.

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  • its really really really hard for me. It's a curse.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Its no BIC deal. We get ahotdown down like a hurdle of cheekin' flockin' outside of the street :/

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