When ever I try to socialize, I get ignored. When I help someone, I get stepped on. And yet when I dare to even look, someone else has found a girl, a trick, A FWB, whatever they want. At what point should I give up looking? When should I accept nobody wants to know me, and lock myself up?
Why does dating seem impossible?
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Love finds you when you aren't searching for it. Sounds ridiculous, but it's true. While you are focusing on other things and improving yourself, someone will begin to be interested in you and also you will be more attractive to them because you are doing your own thing, and you seem to not need anyone else. That's just how it happens. It will find you when you least expect it to.1
Just keep in mind, you will never have a successful love life or even relationship until you become comfortable with who you are, your opinions and beliefs, and set goals for yourself (even if they're not amazingly intricate or grand). You need to know who you are in order to attract anyone. Find some sort of inner peace and change your focus for a few months from relationships to making yourself happy. I promise it makes ALL the difference!0
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