There's a girl i've been with for 5 months and we are extremely close and very in love. Normally she tells me when a guy texts her, especially one who likes her, but she never even told me this guy liked her and just last night after we had sex I saw her text and tell him she missed him. Should I be worried? I talked to her about it and she cried really hard because she felt like she hurt me and swore to me she has no feelings for him, then blocked him. What should I do? I want to just forget about it but I feel like she may be lying and have feelings for him, even if there's just a little. She NEVER tells guys she misses them, ever. We had a big upset talk over this, and she felt like she lost me and hates herself because of this... I'm worried because I told her if she has no feelings for him it's no big deal, but she seemed really guilty. Does that mean there's something she isn't telling me? Advice anyone? I was just going to forget about it and try to act like nothing happend.
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Even though you both have been in this wonder Fairy tale romance, there Could be a small chance that being she gave this little peon her Number, that they have been talking, obviously Texting and Now----She has gotten her hand stuck in the cookie monster's jar.
Okay, so now goes the 'Delete' button, but with her pushing the button on One end, it has stirred up toil and trouble on Your end, making you Now wonder: Does that mean there's something she isn't telling me?
Yes, to be truthful there Is And---Was. But if you love her, you'll forgive her, forget this the best that you can, and Move on from it to save this newbie relationship that I know in your heart that you want More to come down the road. I do believe that everyone deserves a second chance, especially pulling on your heart strings as this one is doing.
Unless she gives you any more proof in the sweet pudding that she could still be having her cake and eat it too, let it rest, let sleeping digs lie and keep her on a short leash.
She is whining and howling because she knows she is in the dog house, so be cool, keep your yelp quiet, and If you see that she is biting the hand that is feeding her again, tell her she is barking up the wrong tree And------Give her Her walking papers and send her down the Forgotten path... No trust, no use of being tied down any more... I am not seeing 6 months nor Another shot with this pup again.
Good luck. xx0