In order to ask the full question... I must give a full background... I'm a half Lebanese and Half Latina. Growing up my father (Middle Eastern) told me that "I was going to have a very hard time finding an honest Muslim due to my background (mixed)". Saying that due to the fact that I'm a western girl men would have a hard time taking me serious. He said and I do quote "you'd have a better chance meeting a nice Latino" of course there is nothing wrong I am part Latina... so growing up I always had a hard time trusting Arab men when coming to "love" (so I never dates, gone to dates, movies etc.)... recently I was talking to a really nice guy from middle eastern roots (he was interested in my background, education... he knew about Mt mixed culture and didn't bother him he instead kept asking me questions of both) so one day he messages asking me if we can hang out some time to "chat" and get to know each other more he said "maybe to dinner" but I told him no. Its been a day and I haven't heard back... so does that mean he didn't want anything serious? Was my fathers theory right?
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How the hell can you make an assumption that a man doesn't want anything serious by asking you a sincere question? What question to you gives off the feeling that a man is serious with you?
What kind of father tells his child she can't do something or will have a hard time in life? That is mentally damaging. It seems like your father doesn't want you to marry a Muslim man or Arab man that is not westernized, and instead said what he said to you to give you the choice to be free. To be free of whom you choose to love.0