This man and I have" chemistry" but never really acted upon it. We go to the same college, not really close friends, but we do talk and cordially say hi to each other (have short convos). I know that he feels it too. It just nothing has really happened between us. Every time I am around him I feel good, comfortable, calm, like myself... I never felt like this before.
Before he tried to play me then was mean to me when people were around. But when alone he always wants to be close and talk. But I got tired of his crazy actions and treated him the same way he treated me and ignored him until he started being kind to me. Ever since then he has been really sweet. But has not made any moves on me at all. Just treats me more like a friend but has been saying hi to me when we pass each other which has never happened before till now.
Is there anything I could do? What tips and ideas do you guys have for me. I am 21 and he is 23. We are both in the same university senior year lol last year. I have no idea what to do? I have no experience never had a boyfriend, dated or anything. Please help me I really appreciate it. I do not know if I should act on it or just ignore it and let it go.
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Wow, keep all your feelings hidden and when it finally dissolves, you can think about it for the next 40 years. That sounds like a terrible idea, doesn't it? I would tell him that you like him and have fun when you are out, so what about trying out some proper dates? Two possible responses. Either way, you will feel much better about this way down the line. Or imagine what you could have done with him way into the future. Your choice.
By the way, most guys would love to hear this.1