I mean don't just say when you 'go official' because that is ridiculous for most people past school age. What i'm asking is when it is considered normal for you to consider your girl your girlfriend and to talk to others about her as such?
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I would introduce her as your girlfriend to someone and if she doesn't correct you... you'll know. Most women (not all) are just as confused as you are right now and wondering the exact same thing. They don't want to scare the guy off or make any assumptions so they don't ask either... most of us wait for that "enlightening" moment where "our guy" introduces us as "his girl"... and when he does... we're smiling a really big smile on the inside... on the outside we act natural as if we already knew that LOL2