What happens to the women they're friends with when you two get serious? Does their friendship tone down? Like not seeing eachother one on one anymore, or rarely?
Or what if a guy is talking to girls, just having fun playing the field because he is single, but then gets a girlfriend (you) then what? Are they still like that typically? Or if they're not like that during their -single- life, is that a better choice in a partner?
I know a single guy, great guy, but during his single-hood he's picked up some lady friends. They're classy women but I feel jealous at the thought of us ever dating (kinda headed that way). Just not sure what happens, what will change, etc.
I've not dated at all because I was in a very long term relationship prior to this, and this insecurity is putting me off. Please help me to understand what is acceptable and what is not acceptable. I just want to one day meet someone that I feel their total commitment and that I am the most important woman in the world to them. Never had that- not even close.
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"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
Guys go through the same thing seeing their significant other hanging out around other men. It comes down to trust and realizing that if a person wants to be with you they will be with you and not someone else. In that way as long as there is trust there is no harm in that person having their own friends regardless of gender.0