It's quite embarrassing to admit this but I've never had a boyfriend, been on a date, been kissed or anything of the sort. I don't really go out much on a social aspect since I work and will be starting senior year in about a week. I don't go to parties but then again I don't get invited to any either. I don't drink or smoke or curse or anything bad. Am I too much of a goody two shoes of a friend to go out with guys?I want a serious relationship, not just a fling.
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There's nothing wrong with you. Not everyone has rounded heels and goes round the block.
My wife didn't have a relationship in HS either. Neither did I, neither did my daughter in law. (I had two "flings", only because the circumstances were right: one was good luck, the other one bad luck)
I remember three parties I went to. Lonely. My birthday coincides with school vacations in July, so I wasn't home to give a party, nor were my friends to come. Thus few people invited me to their parties. Same for my son: Easter vacations.
We don't feel embarassed about it.
It's not necessary but you could try starting with a fling(without illusions) and turn it into a serious relationship. Just pick the right guy.(they exist: look in your friend zone)
Don't worry, be happy. link0