I remeber last time when i was really heartbroken i met this guy, he was perfect, like i mean everything was great and he liked me a lot and wanted to meet all the time.
But because i was heartbroken i didn't go for him and also because i wasn't so attracted to him but his personality shined more. I would make up excuses to not meet etc because i was afraid of falling in love and i knew he would be a guy i could love so i didn't go for it.
Well i dated a guy who was in a rel for 6 years and they broke up last year and she is with another guy and recently had a baby with her new bf.. and things were great with this guy and i and he told me he liked me and we had a lot in common and had so much fun but after Valentine's day when he told me he liked me he pulled away and just didn't talk to me at all.. only liked my pictures..
and than i managed to ask why he was this way and he said he wasn't looking for anything serious because he didn't have the time.. oh and he lived in another town..
but did he run because he still is heartbroken? he lives in my town now and he contacted me and we met and had a great time.. nothing awkward or anything and he told me i could contact him whenever i wanted too
I did last week where i asked him if he wanted to go biking with me, and he said yes but he had to work that day, and that he would let me know when he has free time and the sun is out..
i really want to meet him but i dont want to push anything i mean he could have not contacted me at all right?
anyways thanks for reading this long question..
have you been heartbroken and rejected someone because of it? even though you knew they were great?
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I have been heartbroken. I have been more cautious since that experience, playing more sports and not being as friendly with girls because I still do have that memory in the back of my mind. I can't say I have rejected any girls, but I have been more subdued.0