My boyfriend just told me today that he will be leaving with his family for 4 weeks to Mexico with no wifi and he can't bring his cell phone. He is leaving in 2 days. We are in high school, and I don't know how he is going to keep up his grades or catch up. Then he also told me he might have to leave all Christmas break to mexico too. Should I be loyal and just trust him and wait until he gets back, or just give it a rest and not do long distance. I don't have many friends and I love to flirt, but I can't really do anything because Im with him ALL the time! Normally he will freak out if I can't hangout with him or see him for a day, because he is crazy clingy. He is the longest relationship I have kept. Help me please! I have to talk to him tomorrow.
- Keep dating himVote A
- Take a breakVote B
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should talk to him. Communication is key. Tell him your fears and ask him his intentions, ask him what he wants to do and what he expects you to do. However, if it is that you had problems with his clingy behavior before and wanted to break up with him before but wasn't sure, this is the time to test the 'single life' theory. So in that case break up with him.
But if you guys have been great and everything was normal and you never wanted to break up with him, ask him what he wants to do (stay together or break up), and if he says so wait the two weeks and see. If when he comes back, he's been unfaithful or if during the two weeks you find yourself thinking differently about the 'long distance' since you might have to do it again, then you have all the time in the world to be single. But by saying you'll stay with him during that time, way you'll figure out what you want for sure. Good luck!0