She sent a text message to me. We haven't talked none today'. It's arounrd 10pm. The text said ----> Okay.. umm I'm sorry but before you I had just got out of a relationship and I'm not exactly ready to be in another one. You are a great guy and everything I just don't think I'm right. I'm sorry.
Friends? Then 5mins later she said ---> James? What should I reply with if at all? by the way --> I preety sure she wasn't in a bad relashionship at that time
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My true advice. Say something nice to close it off at least for a little while. If your ok with the relationship ending just move on. Maybe you could be friends in time but just leave it a few weeks.
However if you want her back...
Say something like, ''I appreciate your honesty, no hard feelings'' That's it.
Then DONT contact her at all after that. Give her space. It will leave her wondering for sure.
If she messgaes you then it's up to you if you reply back but don't reply strait away.
i had a similar thing with my bf, but I didn't want to break up, we had been together a year and a half. Things went odd. I broke it up with him as he said he didn't know how he felt.
So I sent a polite no hard feelings message then didn't contact him for a few weeks. Finally I messaged him and it went on from there and he asked me back. I didn't go to his beck and call, he had to work a little for it.
Sort of like the 'no contact rule' although much less like playing a game. I was giving him space to think, while getting on with my own shit.
I wish you luck what ever you decide to do.0