This guy who I thought liked me, because he said he did, and said such nice things to me, and kissed me, didn't want a relationship. Why did he mess with me like that?
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Being a nice guy, kissing you, and saying nice things doesn’t tie things together hun. He didn’t do anything cold hearted and instead actually saved you from a suffering relationship from him not being fully committed. I understand exactly his point, I've been in his shoes. It definitely wasn’t an easy thing to break with the girl I was with even after we did a lot more than just kiss. I still miss her and have strong feelings for her, I just wasn’t ready for the commitment so early in life. Sometimes you realize things aren’t set up right and need to put an end to them. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you or find your personality attractive. Just sometimes men aren’t in a general state in life for relationships and the same goes for girls.
He was not playing you. He simply had enough feelings to give you that kiss. Everyone in a while everybody needs to know they are desirable in some way. This was his way of telling you he found you worthy enough to kiss you. Also, don’t generalize all men just because one broke your heart. Just because 1 out of aprox 3 billion men that means all men are bastards and break hearts? Be careful what you say.0