I've recently started taking a new bus to get to school, and I sat next to this cute girl. We've been talking and she is SUPER cool, not to mention she looks older than she is,
But thats the problem. She JUST told
Me that she is 14. I am 18. I told her I don't want to date someone as young as her, I did the right thing, yes? She's not very happy about it, and soooo many of her friends have been bombarding me with "age doesn't matter", and its making me unsure of my descion.
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Yes, she's too young. Maybe mentally you assume she's mature, but come on guy jail bait! Lol Hello?
People say "4yrs isn't that bad", umm yes it is. Why? Because so much more maturing happens in those preteen and teenage years. You're legally considered an adult. She can't even get into an R rated movie without an adult? Wtf lol
All I'm saying, it's very tricky. Is this chick really worth all that? Plus, even if she doesn't get mad at you, let's say her parents get mad at her for dating you. They can easily press charges on you, you do know that right? This happened to my friend. He was 18 dating a 15yr old. I told his dumbass to be careful. One day the daughter was being a regular teenage brat and tried running away. The father got mad at the bf, even though he had absolutely nothing to do with it, and called the cops on my friend. So he was arrested but later I think the charges were dropped cuz the stupid 15yr old ran to her best friends house. The father assumed she went with her bf.
Point is, these fresh out of puberty girls are too much drama. Teenagers are fussy and cry over everything. They want to be taken as adults but throw tantrums like children. Which they're allowed to. Why? Because they aren't adults. But it's your life, you decide what you want to do.
In Latin America, we have a saying, which translates to:
"Let them (be an idiot), that way they'll learn."
Now you decide what you think is best, but be very careful. You could even get labeled as a sex offender, that shit almost happened to my friend haha. His dumbass learned his lesson and never again. He didn't even date 17yr olds. He only went with legal adults from that point on. Lmao he learned the hard way. :P
Do what you think is best and good luck.1