I know a girl who dated a guy for five years. The guy would cheat on her and she would run back to him every time because she loved him. It took her that whole five years to finally decide she had enough of being used. She went through a phase where she was messing around with other guys trying to get over her ex. It took her two years of being single and hooking up to even consider opening up to someone else.
How long does it take a girl like this to love again?
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I can't recall high school that much... but I have liked a few girls in college... when they friendzoned me... I was devastated throughout the entire semester I knew them... but I would still put on a happy face around them and be strong, but cry at night over it or while driving. I would only get over it when the semester ended and then I would cut all contact with them to prevent me from being in pain any longer.
Just recently... this girl had a crush on me... but I was still trying to figure out my feelings for her. When I finally figured things out, she found a new man. This happened a week ago. I am still trying to get over it, but it's tough. Just feel worthless now. Have her cell phone number, her social media sites... and she is always updating. I also start to question if this guy really likes her. Although he hangs out with her from time to time, he hasn't updated his social media status to "in a relationship with her" and he never talks about her on those sites. Yet, she talks about him all the time, likes all his statuses, always talks about how she wishes she can hang with him... but he never does this to her.
Anyway... back to the question XD. Takes me a couple months. I just listen to sad music, go to the gym, look at them on social media sites and ask myself "why did I like her?" and eventually it all subsides.0