So if a man respects a woman and treats her in a gentlemanly way, he gets friendzoned/rejected/dumped/cheated on. If he treats her like crap, doesn't give her an ounce of respect and perhaps fools around with other women, then the woman throws herself all over him because he's supposed to be an 'alpha male'. Agree or not?
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Most Helpful Girl
You're too freaking old to think this way... if you are friends with a girl and she rejects you, she just doesn't like You! Why assume that it's because you didn't treat her like shit? Honestly, why not just admit that you are not desirable to everybody? It takes a real conceited motherfucker to think that they got rejected because they're too nice.
Never in my experience has a girl liked a guy more because he treats her like shit. However, if he's giving her attention and then suddenly stops and starts messing around with other girls, she might think oh shit I'm losing him and she'll try to get his attention again.3
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Most Helpful Guy
The QA's question applies directly into the female "jerk fever" phenomenon! It's not politically correct to mention it, but let's be real here! Every douche bag, bad boy, jerk, jack-ass, player and thug seems to be doing very well with women! It is a FACT that uncaring lowlife men who treat women like crap are clearly PREFERRED by many women!
It is also a FACT that many genuine GOOD men who always treat women with utmost kindness and respect are typically shunned by women! This is what the QA has observed! He isn't seeing imaginary things! THIS IS REAL!
The video linked below is called Douche Bag Math 101 by Susan Walsh from Hooking Up Smart dot com website. She makes a graphical analysis of women's choices in a typical college campus environment. According to her, some 80% of the women are having having sex! And they are ONLY doing it with the 20% of the men whom she classes as "Douche Bags"! According to Ms. Walsh, the oher 80% of the men get NOTHING AT ALL!
Most women are in denial and keep trying to pretend this isn't happening! The QA is right! Men are basically required to act like an ass and treat women like crap or be TOTALLY SHUNNED! Women's choices in men are a huge societal problem! Check out the video!