My friends say that I have high standards. People often shit on me when I tell them I am not interested in big women and tell me I am wrong. People also shit on me when I tell them I am not interested in black women (I am black).
I have had quite a life, and I am more mature than most of my peers. I am educated. I don't party. I am still a virgin. I enjoy quiet pursuits. Yet, at the age of 23, most of the women I come across are into partying, already have kids or choose stupid men. It just makes it very discouraging for me to find a good match.
Here is my ideal girlfriend:
-She would be educated. No kids. Likes to go out (not party). Enjoys reading.
-She would care about her looks (without being vain), enjoy dressing up and looking nice (fashionable) and likes to work out and stay in shape.
-She wouldn't be obsessed with going out all the time and wouldn't mind just staying inside some days... just watching TV/movies, cuddling, cooking together, playing video games/board games and just talking.
-She would be very caring, kind, have goals in her life and do things to achieve those goals.
Describe your ideal mate.
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Your standards are fine! And not unrealistic, I know several girls that would fit that criteria. Just keep your eyes open!
-He would open doors for me, small stuff like that makes me feel wonderful inside.
-He would be okay not partying because I don't care for that scene too much.
-He would be okay being woken up in the middle of the night, I have nightmares.
-He would be a virgin, like me.
-He would surprise me sometimes, with like chocolate or food or whatnot. I like food.
-He would talk to me about the relationship so I always know what's going on. Communication is key.
-He would be Christian, preferably catholic like me but it's okay if he isn't.
-He should be somewhat fit. Doesn't need to be a Crossfit extremist, but in shape.
-He could make me smile.
Wow... I have a long list... O. O0