Someone here said:
"It's why a lot of men with money are going overseas to find wives. I'm sorry, but this hook-up culture has been DEVASTATING for most men. A handful of attractive men are fucking a different woman every week. The rest of us are for the most part dateless, and when we do find a date she's already slept with like 20 different guys and has a couple of STD's and a kid. Back when people married young, almost everyone got a partner. Players avoid commitment though, which keeps them on the market, meaning the majority of girls are fucking the same handful of guys. Then after their looks go, and those players don't want to fuck them anymore, they demand a decent guy to settle for them. I'm 26, still a virgin. Girls my age have all fucked over a dozen guys, and most of them have kids, a lot of them by multiple fathers.. Do you understand the dating game from the male perspective yet?"
Most Helpful Girl
Its not all woman you can't generalize like that, so he has trust issues woman get cheated on too not just like men. Also if players wanna be players then they aren't going to meet the nice girl are there.0
Most Helpful Guy
Obviously exaggerated, but there is truth to it.
Men take longer to become independent in the past. As such, a typical guy may not have a house and a job until 25 or later. Crap housing market, higher education requirements, and greater student debt are the main factors for this. As such, couples usually don't form until later, whereas 50 years ago a guy could get a house and a job with a high school diploma.
Women are choosier than in the past. A typical young girl (say, 21 or under) isn't going to stick with a single guy unless he is the WHOLE package. Because college educated women can become financially independent, there's no economic pressure to marry a stable provider guy, so most girls would rather keep dating around than settle for good enough. As such, couples usually don't form until later, whereas 50 years ago an 18-year-old girl would be well on her way to finding a stable husband/provider/father figure.
In those 18-25 ages when older generations got married, we now have mostly singles. During that seven years, though, people don't stop having relations and sex. Even if guys aren't ready for the demands of marriage, they're still going to try and get laid while they work toward independence. Even if girls haven't found Mr. Right, they're still going to fulfill their sex drives with Mr. Hot-but-not-stable-enough.
What results is two basic types of men- those who meet the new female standard and those who don't. The guys that do can pretty much get laid on command, and most of them don't see the need to get married at all. The guys that don't are left wondering why being good (stable, good father figures) isn't good enough anymore (or only good enough for the single moms). The new players make women resent men, and the new betas resent women for resenting them.3