A friend of mine is 18 yrs. Old and she started talking to this guy that was 32 years old. 14 years older than her and she said that he thought it was kind of weird but he was okay and acts like he's in control most of the time. And he gets mad when she can't see him because she has school.
Is it the age gap? Is he too old for her? I told he was but she wants other people's views on it. Thanks in advance!
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First of all he is creepy if he gets mad because she needs to go to school. It seems like he's a very controlling guy. And some men specifically date younger girls because they think they can control them and control the sex better than with a woman of their own age. So warn her about this. If he's already now a bit controlling than it's best for your friend to stay away from.
Age difference can be an issue. My ex was also 14 years older and I was 22 when we started our relationship. But the problem is that he was already basically settled in his life: you won't make a lot of changes anymore in personality and desires when you're older. So 5 years later I was a totally different person than who I was when we first started. When you're young you still develop a lot in your personality, your dreams, etc. You do grow apart. So I ended it.0